As many of you have read from my previous posts I have become more out so to speak; nails, leggings, flats. My attitude is that I refuse to have other people define me by their standards. I am who I am and I make no excuses. I have been a good husband, father, and a productive member of society. I will no longer be ashamed or guilt ridden because I choose to present myself in a different manner. There are exceptions for family. I wish that were different but in the grand scheme of things my family ranks above all others. Sorry for the rant. I just had to get that off my chest.