I want to be atractive, I would be extremelly suspicious of anyone hitting on me, I cannot pass, well, maybe from a mile away.
In any case I would probably be also very flattered.
But of course, that would be as far as I would go, I am happily married and I love my wife. I am also not into guys at all, and fortunatelly, since many years back, when I see a very atractive lady, my only desire is to be able to look like her!
So not to attract, for me anyway.