I guess the neighbor could be Superman with x-ray vision so that when the cleaner walked in front of the picture window they could see the cleaner was wearing heels, even though the picture window is probably four feet off the ground.
Many people on this board live their lives afraid of their shadows. This thread is just another example.
What your neighbors see in your house is none of their business. The fact is, 99.9% of the time they can't see in anyway. But people can choose to live their lives worrying about the .1% of the time when the neighbors can see something--and then ask you about it.
FWIW, not only have I been the "strange woman", on at least three occasions I invited one of my GG friends to my house to have dinner (on these occasions, my wife was away). If I was worried about what my neighbors thought, I wouldn't have done it. But I realize my neighbors don't care and they mind their own business, so I had nice times with my friends.
Once again, you can choose to let what others might think run your life, or you can choose to run your own life.
I think choosing to run my own life is a lot more fun, and I've got about 100 threads in the picture section as proof--plus about 50 posts at Kandi's place.
Of course, YMMV.
