Sometimes, I think we compare ourselves unfairly to the the CDs/TGs we admire, and unless we achieve that level of physical beauty we can't possibly measure up. Like with stage fright or the inability to speak publicly, this negative way of thinking compromises our confidence. It's important to remember that most people, especially in a casual daily environment like a restaurant, mall or park are not there to garner attention for their extraordinary beauty, they are just going about their business. So unless your goal is to get as much attention as you can, just look your best (and isn't that fun in itself) go about your business as everyone else is, and enjoy!
