My 2 cents - Labels have changed over the years. Most of the older Labels needed to go away.
I am comfortable with Transgender Label at my age. It is my opinion an umbrella for us all.
Transsexual on one side and crossdressing on the other side, and everything else between the two sides/edges.
Yes, my gender issue started when I was around 4-5, bad issues during puberty. Always felt I should have been a girl/female and still do.
Sexually male, wife over 40 years.