Going out is the only way for me. What's the point of dressing up if no one sees you? Some might say what's the point if you don't take a picture. I guess that works if you're in the closet. For me going out and finding acceptance is everything. It's difficult to post stories in the exact right place in the exact right way for this board to be happy with my posts. For that reason I'm out. LOL I just resigned myself to offering help on other people's posts. I rarely to almost never start my own. I'm okay with that.