If being in the closet means no one knows about my dressing and not going out in public dressed, I'm in the closet. My late wife is the only person that knew about my dressing. She enjoyed it and encouraged it. The furthest I have been out of the house dressed is the back yard, yelling at the dogs in the daylight and the mailbox after dark. I don't plan on changing that anytime soon. I have been that way for over 40 years and I am content just dressing in the house.
