For me, I dress fully today because it's comfortable and looks so pretty. I like my image dressed better than boy mode. Wonderful fabrics on my skin. In kindergarten I loved the look of Mrs. Simenon's nylons. Mom wore them for work and church. Sister to ballet. So I wanted to wear them too. Grandma let me wear her knee highs. Then during the 80's I fell for the workout video looks. Pretty much everything 80's. So sexy and classy. I wanted to wear what they were. Always have had that spark to put something fenmen on. After marriage it became play to dress up with my wife and be naughty together. We still do that today but dressing for me over the years has evolved from sometimes sexual to more of a way of life. Started in knee highs and now I find myself about to strut thru the mall. I have walked outside the mall. Many have stated that dressing is a progression and I can so see that in my past. I am on the hunt for men's clothing that is the same material and comfort as women's for those time I have to boy mode it. I am unable to go full time out and about. No, family and friends don't know about me dressing. Just my favorite friends know. My wonderful wife is so so supportive and active with me. We are very open to each other and our individual needs. It's wonderful you and your wife are chatting about all this together. I too can't explain what or why I have these desires other than to say I like steak. I don't like sea food. I like dresses. I don't like pants. That's just me. Good luck in everything.