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    Platinum Member kimdl93's Avatar
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    Reality is that a lot of people have prejudices. That does not mean that their prejudices are correct and does not mean that you are obligated to agree with or share their biases. It does mean that you may find some people in your family and circle of friends that are incapable of accepting and/or supporting you. So you have to decide who you want to share this part of yourself with.

    As for relationships, let me suggest that, right now, the last thing you should be thinking about is the next relationship. Get used to being alone and give yourself a good deal of time to get settled and recovered from the end of this relationship. Time in terms of many months, or better a few years, before you rebound.
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    Beano I'm single again just as you are. Though my being single is due to my passing last July. I'm going to wait until it has been a year before I consider dating again. Having been married twice, the first one ended in divorce, I don't know how serious I'm liable to get with any other women. I'll just wait and see what happens, but if it does go semi-serious I definitely plan to let her know about my crossdressing. In the long run I'd rather be single the rest of my life than trying to hide who I truly am.
    The Pink Fog will be with you, always!

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    What's a "basement"? I've seen them on TV but still not sure?
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    I really like Sandi's advice and it got me wondering if one is the type of crossdresser that doesn't go out fully dressed, what can one do to increase the odds that someone who seems interested in you will be accepting? I'm thinking, providing some visual clue like nail polish. Anyone who would talk to a guy with nail polish isn't looking for a super masculine partner. Just a thought, but I don't have any experience in this area.

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    For what it is worth my 2 cents.....
    Life is short, if you are not sure, you shouldn't be out LOOKING.
    BUT if you wait, ya just don't know what you may have missed out on.
    Yes, make sure you are a happy camper with yourself and your choices. Don't head out being desperate to find someone / anyone.
    Still I would keep my toes in the dating pool just so you keep up your social skills.
    We just don't know when "The Right One" will come along, just as we don't know how many more sunrises / sunsets we have in our future.

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    A basement is like a cellar. A mostly below ground level part of a house. A cellar is completely underground. A basement has windows above ground level.

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