I believe that the choices are not A or B. It is a sliding scale along the line. It really is not a choice either but I feel it is a sliding scale that is movable.
And I can move that dot on the line as I wish. I have been told by more than 1 GG and I quote "You are such a girl." I loved it.
But also I can be the man in the house and out doing what most men do.
So, today at home fully dressed I am a woman in my mind.
When I go out as Natalie, in my mind I am a woman. I have every right to do the things I want and not hid myself. But I dress to blend as a very nicely dressed person. I tend to get a little too dressy for my shopping trips. Better to be over dressed than under dressed.
