I get to go out dressed up occasionally, and I usually have a really good time when I do. Even so, it is a small percentage of time overall, so I think about crossdressing a LOT. There are periods when I am so preoccupied by other activities that the thoughts take a back seat for a while;however, any idle time invites those thoughts to come back. Since I have been doing this for the last six years, I suppose I have some degree of balance. Even so, I wonder if the amount of time I spend dwelling on crossdressing could be unhealthy to a degree.
It is probably just as well I keep things to myself as the crossdressing is all about me. I suspect that has been an issue in some marriages. I can see how even an accepting spouse might be turned off by a mate if it is an obsession.
Finding that balance is delicate and tricky for some of us. It is still a work in progress for me.
Do you think about it a lot as well?
Sandi