I have to agree with Jillian (#5), et al. If it is "just the clothes" then it would be perfectly alright to appear as a bearded woman, hairy arms and bulging, who is not even trying to adopt any feminine mannerisms. In the present climate of anti-LGBTQIA rhetoric I think it is advisable not to have any pronounced bulges that may attract additional attention. Me? My choice of attire is strictly dresses, and specifically empires waist, sheaths and wraps that are not body hugging, but fall freely. My choice is based on concealing the fact that my measurement are 42-38-40 which is not an hour glass figure, but is alright for an aging oldster (75). If I am at home I do make an attempt not to have a visual bulge but I am not going to stuff it so badly that I am uncomfortable. If I am going out for an evening stroll I do wear at a minimum a control panty. There has been a lot of discussion on this board concerning female mannerism, so I am conscious when out about how I walk and carry any totes, etc.
