I understand how you feel. I'm in South East Ky. I'm not out in my home town because of some of the issues you mention. I rarely use the ladies rooms while out and never in drab. The talk in public where I live is leaning towards much violence towards people like us if their daughters ever see one of us in the bathrooms. I'm very careful with where I go dressed. Not planning on quitting anytime soon. Tried many times with no success.
