Mod Hat
I realize the OP is expressing how controlling and belittling the ex was.
But remember this when replying
Per the rules
Ridiculing members/non-members, or the manner in which they express themselves. This includes any complaint about the way females, males, transgendered, or any other cross-section of the membership dress, the way they express themselves (such as spelling and language skills, and any mention of religious beliefs, political preferences and affiliations, sexual preference, etc.)
If it continues to be that the thread will be done .Complaining how you wear heels and dresses and your partner does not and how much more feminine you are than your wife will not be tolerated.
Wear what you like, let others be themselves as well.
Member me reply
Sorry you lived through such a controlling relationship.
Everyone should be accepted for who they are.
Glad you found someone that accepts you.
I hope with your acceptance you will fly free and find yourself.
With my Sher she did .
Do not let her words live in your head another minute.
