Rachel, glad you're getting over the Covid. Since you are retired and live alone, I'll ask you the same questions I'd ask myself.
1. Would I like to present as Heather 24/7?
2. Would I feel comfortable doing so in my current neighborhood?
3. Am I willing to lose some friends over it?
4. Am I prepared for my family to know I CD?
In my case, I would love to present as Heather 24/7.
I'm not sure how my neighbors would react. I'm sure some would be okay with it but most wouldn't be as it's an area with a lot of retirees (and we know how most older people feel about CDers). If I didn't feel welcome here, I can easily move. Can you?
Yes, anyone that cannot accept me was never a true friend. They were basically a good acquaintance.
Yes. I could handle my family knowing. I believe they know me well enough to know I'm a good person who loves each of them unconditionally. I wouldn't expect them to understand - just to accept Heather.
I know this answers no questions; but, I hope it gives you something to think about.
