I had to think about this before responding. There was a time when I would have loved if my (ex) wife had coaxed me into cross dressing. I think at the time, I felt I needed and wanted her permission to crossdress. The time came when I no longer felt that I needed permission, but I still would have appreciated if she had been able to support me without her suffering stress associated with having a transgender partner. The stress continued even when I took an 18 month break from dressing around her.