I have only passed a few times at Halloween. And, I can tell u being thot of and treated as a genetic woman is not always a picnic!
However, when I'm out I dress for me! I want to see a pretty woman in my mirror.
As far as what other people see and think of me? That's none of my business.
I'm with u on dressing to blend and other forms of androgenous dressing, Sandi. I guess I'm too old to be anything other than binary.
