Nobody really cares until they do. I really don't go out dressed unless I am leaving my micro-metropolis where everyone knows everyone else's business. Just because I am wearing guy clothes around town doesn't mean my appearance is totally guy. I have my tells. If you take any one of my tells, no big deal. When you start adding all my tells up, well you might begin to think a bit deeper. And that's exactly what happened to me. A few months ago, good friend started, while out to breakfast with my wife, questioning my grooming habits. Fortunately, my said she really could care less and changed the subject. My wife told me and added, it's a matter of time before Carrie figures you out. Now every time I see my friend I am waiting for her to bring up the subject. Needless to say, I feel very uncomfortable around Carrie. We're having Christmas Eve dinner with Carrie and her husband and I am dreading it.
