Very interesting read, I have a massive attraction to fur and long boots, I?ve always liked the thought of being in women?s clothing and experimented with lingerie when I was a younger, years rolled by and I managed to “control” my thoughts and feelings, about 11 years ago I had a breakdown caused by a narcissistic work manager, which caused me to spend time in a private hospital, I was medicated fairly heavily, saw a psychiatrist and have been seeing my psychologist since 2013, my psychologist has been a massive help to me and was very supportive when I told him about my desire to wear fur and boots from time to time, my wife is not so accepting, she has suggested it?s for me to get my rocks off which is untrue and she feels like I have deceived her by not telling her 25 years ago, I understand that it is very confronting and confusing for her as she seems to think this will change me as a person, I have no intention or interest in taking my cross dressing much further other than maybe a nice blouse and skirt to match my fur and boots, I?m trying to be sensitive and non confrontational with my wife and trying to allow her what she needs to try and adjust, she has said she doesn?t want to see it or be involved in it and doesn?t want me dressing while she?s in the house, I desperately love my wife and would love to share just a bit of this part of my journey with her, her reaction while old fashioned is understandable but I find myself in a position where I have to do this as I believe it will help relieve some of my anxieties, allow my softer more understanding feminine side to surface and I just want to experience it and self express in a way that makes me feel happy
