I'm six foot and 200 pounds, so I think my hands are in proportion to my size. My fingers are long. When I go out I have to assume it is obvious I am a man-in-a dress. If I have light weight jacket on or a rain coat (yes, it rains a lot out here!) I put my hands in pockets. I do not take pictures of myself, but if I did I would position myself to obscure the hands.
It was nice to read nobody was judgemental of the cross-dresser.