Thank you for sharing your experiences. I also am trying to get past, "What does everyone else think?" I present non-binary in my daily appearance but enjoy being fully female at home. I like your "exposure therapy" idea and have been exploring my own brand of it by dressing just a bit more feminine with each outing. I live in a very GLBTQ safe neighborhood, so it's really all my own fears of judgement that I'm working with.
