I guess it?s being outside of the apartment as Olivia which is freeing. I?m not that brave yetOriginally Posted by docrobbysherry
So, if no sees u what do u get out of it, Busty?
I guess it?s being outside of the apartment as Olivia which is freeing. I?m not that brave yetSo, if no sees u what do u get out of it, Busty?
For me it's the risk of being seen by someone I (we) know who's opinion we might care about.
I recently came to terms with exactly who I am, after spending most of my life feeling that my dressing meant there was "something wrong with me", so the idea of going out and being seen - by strangers - actively excites me. I don't fear people's reactions, nor have any physical worries (I wouldn't put myself in a dark alley and can handle myself one-on-one).
My only concern is people that know me and how them knowing would effect the life of my wife and kids.
If that weren't a consideration I'd be going out fully dressed today. As it is, I need to be more careful, at least right now.
MsKim, which country r u referring to? My Asian T friend and I have gone out dressed in many countries in Asia!
Fiona, Bea, and Danni: Yes, I understand that because I'm a closet dresser, too!
But, that doesn't stop me, or u, or ANYONE from dressing far away from home!
In fact I just returned from a trip to Seattle as u can see in my avatar.
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Unfortunately, my wife's health problems keeps me from traveling so getting away is not a real option. I do think I would dress in a more androgynous/hybrid/freestyle way if I were away from home.MsKim, which country r u referring to? My Asian T friend and I have gone out dressed in many countries in Asia!
Fiona, Bea, and Danni: Yes, I understand that because I'm a closet dresser, too!
But, that doesn't stop me, or u, or ANYONE from dressing far away from home!
In fact I just returned from a trip to Seattle as u can see in my avatar.
To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved is our greatest fear. But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It is what we need more than anything. ~ Timothy Keller
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