Yes a close call on your part. It?s tough explaining to your children you?re a crossdresser but in my case I did tell my son and although a bit rough in the beginning was awkward but all worked out with him. Unfortunate thing I just lost him on May 1 at 49 years old he had a massive heart attack his half brother had the same event and passed 4 years earlier. I think the worst thing is how he passed not because his dad dressed as a woman but had hip pain and had scheduled hip replacement for the 12th of May maybe he would d made it. But now at least he?s in a better place and out of pain