Bisexual
Bisexual
Straight here, but in the past 10 - 15 years I would admit to being bi-curious with a trans woman. Another guy does nothing for me in the slightest. That said, it would never happen so long as my wife is in my life. As I'm 12 years her senior and the one with health issues, I'd say the odds of me ever being without her are slim to none.
It's never too late to enjoy a happy childhood.
Live each day as though it's your last 'cause one day you'll be right.
I'm finding the more feminine side of me...and I ❤️ this adventure.
I thought I was 100% straight.
I love going out as a woman and love women.
I always wondered what it would be like to be out with a guy as the woman, not to be with the guy but to be that feminine woman.
I did it once.
To be honest parts wear fun, and the power of a feminine body is empowering. Not sure I will ever do it again, parts were confusing.
I'm straight, but one night I got too drunk and crossdressed in front of a male friend.
Won't ever do that again. Did not like being treated like an object for his gratification, and yes, while drunk I was a very willing participant.
So yeah, way in the past and never again.
100% straight
I have to say I am Str8 just because I am just not physically attracted to men. The odd thing is that I am ok with them being attracted to me when I am dressed up. I think it is kind of a validation that what I am wearing is not only attractive to me but others as well. That does not mean I am going home with someone who hits on me. What I find odd is that I have seen posts where some say they would not know what to do if someone hit on them while dressed. It seems simple to me. You are straight or other, available or not, lastly interested in the other person or not. The decision is easy because you already know the answer to the first two.
Sandi
I like to make up lines to use in case I get into difficult circumstances.
So, the scenario is that I'm sitting alone at a bar. Some guy (from a table with a bunch of guys) come over and is chatting me up. I'm a friendly girl; I'll talk to him. But, if he tries to proposition me, I'll thank him for his offer, but tell him, "I'm kind of into chicks. But, if you want to wear a dress, we could discuss it further."
He can then go back to his guy friends and explain that he wasn't "shot down", but that I wasn't dating material. He gets to keep his pride among his male group, but gets the hint to back off.
Straight up, with a twist.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
I'm somewhere in between I would say - mostly straight, but fantasize about being treated as "woman", especially when dressed.
I woudn't classify myself as fully bisexual as I have no interest in men otherwise.
I'm never checking out men or attracted to men, nor could I see myself in a relationship with a man.
I definitely have fantasies about being with a trans woman and would definitely consider a relationship with one if I weren't happily married to a wonderful woman.
Straight. But that doesnt make me any better than anyone who isnt.
I feel the same as Sandi does about this.
Definitely very straight. Doesn't matter how I am dressed or where I am
my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress
"Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"
I am straight. No interest in men whatsoever, whether I am dressed or not.
Last edited by Katherine L.; 09-09-2024 at 06:15 PM.
Straight, with a different sort of fashion sense them most men.
"A smile is the best makeup a girl could wear." (M.M.)
I love this line from a previous post. "I have absolutely no interest in men, but an attractive CD does get my motor running." My wife and I have had a few experience with another CD and found them to be enjoyable.
Wishing all the best on your trip to the old sod. Liked your commentary here about liking new experiences and not caring where they come from. Found myself attracted to a young gay pretty boy at work for his female features. Nothing happened yet surprised at my attraction and the experience of it.Originally Posted by Natalie5004
I could also see myself having relations with another CD, especially if they've put effort in to be somewhat passable (i.e., didn't just throw on a wig and a dress).
To have an experience with a CD, trans woman, or man with my wife also involved would be the ultimate fantasy fulfilled.
Bisexual here, but I prefer men much more than woman.
Last edited by FrannGurl; 09-10-2024 at 04:04 PM.
As incongruent as it may seem given the overwhelming desire to become feminine and an attraction to all the things that go with it, I am a Hetrosexual male.
There may be a bisexual or gay (lesbian) element in my some of my fantasies but that is what fantasies are for and whilst they remain in my imagination I am in total control, nothing is compromised and no-one gets physically or mentally hurt.
I have no desire to transfer any of those fantasies into reality
Lots of Love Lilly xx
Not me in the avatar but the lovely Jenny Powell who I loved so much
I was talking with a gay friend of mine one day. Being friends we could be honest with each other. At some point in our talk I point blank told him that while I was an allie, the thought of even kissing another male was repulsive to me. He laughed and told me that he was repulsed at the thought of kissing a female. I said "cool,,,, we can hang together. I will admire the ladies, you scope out the guys." Worked out perfectly.
Yes, I fully understand that, but what if the fantasy came to you?
I was enticed over the line like that. I was at the Keystone Gala Ball, and I danced with this one CD girl a lot. When the music ended, she said, "I wasn't going to take my panties off for you, but I would have liked a kiss." Steffi was caught up in the moment, and without much thought, she replied, "I could do a kiss." And we kissed, more than once. But good girls don't tell secrets.
Another time, Steffi was sitting next to a GG. I don't remember exactly how this happened, but we decided to transfer lipstick to each other. It was the first time I kissed a GG while wearing lipstick.
Last edited by Sometimes Steffi; 09-10-2024 at 10:39 PM.
Maybe I would have done half a lifetime ago, if I knew then what I know now, but then an older and more experienced (if not actually wiser) head on younger shoulders may have have done a few things differently.
Back in the day when a younger Lilly was Lauren, 25+ years ago, her outlook and expectations were very different to what they may have been had she been born at that point. Continuing along that thought path, if Lauren was around 25 years old today I think her options for moving forward would have been more varied and there is a possibility that she may have walked a different path.
Lauren was much more active in going out and did come into contact with others on her travels where there was opportunity to live out some of those fantasies but was not confident enough in her sexuality to explore further without fear, guilt or remorse.
Reflecting on Lauren and her adventures, it not only feels like a lifetime ago but it also seems like I am reviewing someone's else's story.
There are certainly no regrets but the passing of time allows for reflection and consideration to what might have been had the situation and the World been more accepting to our community.
Lots of Love Lilly xx
Not me in the avatar but the lovely Jenny Powell who I loved so much
I do not really like guys. I could not see myself with a guy. And I have seen some mighty attractive TG girls out there, I am attracted to their femininity not their maleness. But my faithfulness to my marriage keeps me from any any other path than the one I have been on for the last 7 decades.
100% straight. I just like to wear beautiful panties and bras.
Wow ,,,after starting this thread i`d never thought this amount of feed. I`m so happy that so many have responded. Anyways,,,,me,,,Hmmm,, for me the ,,,oh my,,im thinking,,,im an adoring sister as are many here, always enjoyed being, and feeling , and looking my softer side. Once I started,,,many years ago,,,it just happens today. I get to be thankfully for an adoring wife my softer side alot. That being said, I`ve always wondered about being the sub/fem side to and adoring male. Will or when it would ever happen,,,dunno,,,but damn,,its so fun to dream and ponder. I`d have to say it`s a bucket list item to ????
I am Bi curious, i am not overly attracted to men, but when dressed for me the lines get a little blurred, I did make out with a guy once (in drab mode) and it was fun and something that I would like to explore more as it was fun and exciting.
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