Split saddles are designed to relieve pressure on taint, but not sure if they are enough. I like the idea of shorts on top. Never heard of feminine helmets. Don't know if you can wear hair extensions with a helmet. If causual riding could add flower decals to helment, but if you attaire is full road bike, that will be a tell. So use makeup and a nice nail polish with fingerless gloves. Look at images of races to see what is used in real life. Don't thihk you want long hair, try a bob wig. Let us know if you come up with a presentation.
