Geena said it as would I. The pink fog can be controlling.
Geena said it as would I. The pink fog can be controlling.
Sissy and Sub each have their own range of definitions and some of those definitions are things I don't personally find appealing. But, the biggest obstacle is not deciding "Who do I want to be?" as much as "How do I find someone who finds me to be appealing or desirable?" There are people out there who would find either to be attractive mating choices, but the pickings are slim.
My personal opinion is that many of us who let our SO's give us our boundaries are by definition "submissive" or "Sub". The boundaries are not always clearly spoken, but the underlying message is often clear when any affirmation or intimacy is withheld. I feel much less submissive when I choose what I want rather than what she would "allow".
To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved is our greatest fear. But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It is what we need more than anything. ~ Timothy Keller
I really enjoy dressing as a sissy in a big puffy pink dress with all the frills and make up I fell comfortable that way but I have never been submissive to anyone as I am somewhat a manly man that loves pink beautiful dresses I don?t judge anyone as I don?t want to be judged so if you are comfortable being a sissy then sissify yourself and if you like to be dominated then embrace the submissiveness and enjoy being yourself
I think it's an expression of "Humiliation" Masochism. HEY, nothing wrong with that. Being subjugated and humiliated is a well known "Turn on" for MANY people. In this case we are using exaggerated female clothing. Other forms may involve bondage, whips or "Pony Training", etc. I find it slightly erotic enough myself to understand, but not really be into it. As I have mentioned before, there are several different factors that drive Crossdressing in different people. In my case, I am an "Escapist" taking a "vacation " away from myself. finding both relaxation and a quasi-erotic "High" from breaking the "connection".
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Sissy and Sub are just another two labels that people use.
Why do I say that, well as an example, I can remember when the word gay just meant happy.
If consenting adults choose to use them and they both agree on what exactly those terms mean.
Enjoy and be happy.
Hi Staci, If you want to call me a sissy when I am dressed , That is OK with Me.
Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......
I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !
If at first you don't succeed, Then Skydiving isn't for you.
Be careful what you wish for, Once you ring a bell , you just can't Un-Ring it !! !!
No problem here as long as your self-esteem is not in harms way
I would agree with most that the sissy or sub side of things are not inherently bad. I have a sissy side sometimes which my partner participates in. I will say that Natalie is not a sissy though. I even refuse to use that name when in that head space. They are different sides and when I am Natalie I want to present as a woman. An equal to my partner, not submissive. But if your primary motivation is sissy in nature, I don't think that is wrong.
But, I do feel like that sort of thing is more sexual in nature which means one must be careful as to who they engage with. Basically, don't force it on unsuspecting people. That is the line I draw anyway. Crossdressing or exploring gender identity is not something I feel I am forcing on anyone. It is just me trying to be me in a normal way, just dressed differently. Sissy or sub space is something different enough that you shouldn't expose it to just anyone.
No not at all, remember where you are. This is a great group of people here, you included.
I've been walkabout again, but back.
I'm thinking that it's the full and complete acceptance for ME.
I haven't seen any other way to work this!
So, FROCKED UP it seems to be.
And NO I won't suppress HER as she is me.
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