You start off saying a lot happened and then you talk about getting pulled over and laid, and i'm thinking all in the same twenty four hours? Sounds like exciting times in... the UK.
Oh, i think I misunderstood. Let me get back to reading.
The rest of it sounds tame, by comparison. Glad it went so smoothly. We can be our own worst enemy if we let our mind run rampant. You can't worry about what you can't change. People will think what they think. You can only concentrate on making your best impression. Look what other women are doing and act like them.
Since you're looking to be out, it might be helpful to have someone video you just walking and being you in public. If it's wide enough, you can see other people reacting to you or not and also how you stand out compared to them or not.
This can be scary if you really stand out. Now you'll know. It can be helpful if you are the kind that want to fix that and make improvements in what you do and how you act. That's up to you. If you don't like what you see and it's a lot to fix, you might really take a hit in your confidence. So consider that before going forth with the video of yourself.
Enjoy the journey!
