Interesting question

[CDMargret]

This one hurts. The thought of losing her... It would be one of the newspaper articles, "Husband passed moments after his wife's passing."

[TrishaLake]

I would b devastated if I lost my wife, I love her to death. I hid it for years for the same reasons as others, i could control it, its a fetish etc etc but about 12 years she found out and was hurt. We have since worked it out mostly and I go out allot. If she moved on I would date and not exclusively women. I would give all kinds of preferences a try. I would also be upfront about it.