I have mentioned before that my wife knew of my desires, but had limits. One day I was at work, when it dawned on me that I left a "Fit and Flare" dress hanging on the towel bar in the bathroom. I was chilled to the bone. Dresses were not part of the accepted items. I got home from work to find the dress laid out on the bed. Fortunately, she did not make an issue of it, she merely asked if I found my clothes.