Ive been using ChatGPT asking it questions about transgender and things of that nature anything really, Anyway, I accidentally texted my wife a question. I wanted to ask ChatGPT. This was meant for ChatGPT.
my wife knows I crossdress. But not that Im into guys. I really would like an open swinger style marriage. Im not sure how to ask her.
We talked a little on the phone afterwards. She wasn't angry. She said I love you. I just don't know where I go from here.
Last edited by april1978; 06-13-2025 at 10:24 PM.
Eh, a word of caution. Lots of things seem appealing in the abstract, but are potentially destructive in practice. Open, swinger lifestyles are in that category. Open relationships rarely endure. Be wise and leave these things in the realm of fantasy.
O wad some Pow'r the giftie gie us
To see oursels as ithers see us!
We?ve done a little swinging many years ago that not exactly a big deal. It?s the fact that I told her I?m into guys.
You're still quite young, April. If u don't talk things over with your wife u may be tempted to sneak around behind her back. Nothing good will come of that! You may be better off separated.
Think back to how u two discussed swinging for the 1st time and maybe try that?
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
This could not have been said any better!Originally Posted by kimdl93
I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!
I don't want to disagree with anyone, but I do want to push back on the idea that open relationships do not endure. Such relationships aren't for everyone, in fact I'd say it's not for most relationships. Can they increase stress on the relationship? Sure. They can also increase closeness, increase happiness, and increase life fulfillment.
People's feelings about things change overtime. Maybe swinging was okay at 1 time. Maybe it's not now, maybe it still is, it would be good to ask. Then there's the part about guys. Do you know that you like it? Have you experienced it?Do you just want to find out if you like it? Maybe you think you might like it, but you don't know yet. If you're not sure, make sure she knows you're not sure it's just something you're curious about. I hope you figure it out for yourself. So you can have the right conversation with her.
I think the problem is, what do you say when she asks if you plan to act on this information she just learned.
If you don't plan on acting on these feelings tell her.
However if you lie it will only make things worse.
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