Limited time, time for a holiday?

[KymG]

I have hardly dressed these last few months, I havent had much time, and I realised how much i was missing it. I found it consuming a lot of my thoughts, more so than in the past. Ive come to need it a lot more than when i was younger.
Now im fully dressed and made up, but only have about two hours, and it took that long again to shave and get ready.

Its well worth it, am looking out the window on a nice evening, and really liking the feel of the wind blowing my hair. If anyone sees me then what the hell. I doubt id be recognised looking out of a window.

The thing is, its nowhere near the kind of time i would like to myself, but early starts mean it is what is is.

Im considering a short holiday, in a cabin or caravan where i can dress and relax, and hopefully be able to sit outside. Doesnt sound impressive but ive been thinking about it a lot.

Any UK girls have any recommendations?

[Helen_Highwater]

Kym,

This I can definitely help you with. I've been taking Helen holidays for over a decade renting cottages, usually secluded for ease of coming and going, usually in mid/north Wales but there's nothing to stop you going to any part of the country.

There's loads of companies offering a wide choice of properties. I opt to go usually in November but last year's (Nov 24) due to the SO having surgery it got put back to March 25. Missing the main seasons brings the prices down considerably. I'm looking to book for this Nov in a bungalow I've used before that sleeps 6, nice walk in shower, fully equipped kitchen etc for ?340 for a week. As my confidence has grown this place is on a small estate and I come and go as I please without issue.

Being able to live 24/7 enfemme is just such a pleasing experience. from the moment you get up in a nightie, get breakfast, get ready to go out, shop, dine, go to the cinema or theatre, use public transport, basically do what any GG would do is simply liberating.

Even if you don't want to venture out, if you're in a secluded property just being able to sit outside and walk around the garden is such a nice thing to be able to do.

Top tip: If you find a potential property, try to find it on Google maps/street view. It gives you a feeling of where your neighbours are, access, that sort of thing.

Any questions, here to help.

[KymG]

Thanks Helen, I had a feeling you would know what to do.
Yes, just being able to sit outside and walk around the garden is exactly what im after. Doubt id venture further but you never know. Possibly a drive.

[Helen_Highwater]

Kym,

You're in the same place I was all those years ago. Thinking having the freedom of "my own place" for a week would be enough. The great outside calls. I started with evening and then daytime drives. I'd come across a quiet place, somewhere I could leave the safety of the car and walk in a public place. Initially avoiding other people like the plague but growing in confidence each time and each time leaving the desire for more.

Looking back my first real public walks were along Llandudno prom. I'd initially planned to park and make the short walk to a postbox. Got there, nothing bad had happened, walked a bit further, still good, a bit further and now there are people going about their evening business. Wide promenade so able to avoid getting too close I just carried on. Eventually turned to look back and realised I'd walked close to a mile, in heels!. Feet starting to hurt so time to head back. And that's how the genie gets out of it's bottle. Evenings became day walks. Once you've realised these things are more than possible, that all those posts about nothing bad happens, no mobs with torches, things just get better.

A thing that was a huge game changer for me was finding a support group near to where I was thinking of staying and synchronizing my holiday to the week in in the month that they met, contacting the secretary to ask if it'd be OK for me to come along which allowed me for the first time to meet others from our community face to face. Such a wonderful few hours. If you fancy it I'll happily give you the contact details, they met in Prestatyn, or Helena has a group near her, and closer to you, and I'm sure she'd help you out with times etc.

You'll not be surprised when I say go for it, book yourself somewhere and play it by ear. Doing it has been one of the best things I've ever done, helped me on my journey enormously and left me with many many fond memories.