I am probably 98% there. One thing I would like to advance in is full makeup and wig in front of my wife on a regular basis at home. She prefers I don't go that route, so I don't. The other thing I would simply love is for my wife and I to have a girlfriend's weekend out of town. What those 2 things would do is show me my wife has gone from tolerating my CDing to full acceptance.
So, I am in my happy place, but I know there is a happier place out there that I will probably never see.
It's never too late to enjoy a happy childhood.
Live each day as though it's your last 'cause one day you'll be right.
I'm finding the more feminine side of me...and I ❤️ this adventure.
Content is a better description, rather than happy, for me. Basically, making the best of the situations I wind up in.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
Yes. As much as anyone can be happy. Supporting wife, accepting job, accepting friends. So yea. At this point the only thing holding me back from doing the things I want to do are my bank account and my own self acceptance. Took a looooonnnnggg time to get here and it's sometimes a great struggle with self worth. I'm mostly winning the war even if I lose some battles.
You laugh at me because I'm different. I laugh at you because your all the same
hello all,
many thanks for sharing. I enjoyed reading your replies.
I think I am in my happy place - a man in a dress with an accepting wife and often wearing unisex clothing or underdressing in public.
luv J
I'm content where I am.
Yes. I am there. I have crossed off 99% of my bucket list items. If I never get to do those few that remain, it's not important. Life has been good to me.
Phoebe
Think I missed getting off at that station a few miles back and it’s getting too late to turn this train around or to hop on another train heading back that way. But it has been one heck of a trip so far with no regrets at all.
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