Sharing. Who did you tell, who shouldn't you share with

[DianeT]

She's a coworker, you know her husband, she knows your wife (-> maybe some of your wife's friends too), you are her supervisor. Let's see, mmmh, what could go wrong?
I think if your idea was to paint the worst conditions to come out to someone, the only thing that would be missing would be your wife not knowing, other than that you got the perfect recipe for a disaster. Or maybe make it even worse by having feelings for this lady (do you?). Because, you know, men can't be friend with women, Harry explained that in detail to Sally when he met her for the first time.

[Andrea Renea]

Told my wife. Wouldn't want her finding a bra and
think I was having an affair.

No one else needs to know.

[abby054]

As a child, one of the strongest rules on our family is that anything you say or do can be used against you. That has been the case in my married life also. I told my wife after foolishly believing nonsense about having no secrets in a marriage. Huge mistake. I will not do something like that again. After nearly 50 years married, I never reveal anything that is not easily found otherwise. My daughter knows about my CDing because she is an excellent detective, not because anyone told her. No one else knows enough to correlate me to CDing. I am on this forum because solely there is a standard of anonymity and decorum.

[CarlaWestin]

You have to be careful with the disclosure thing. Truly, there's a rush when you mention that you're a CD and then get the "OMG!" when showing a picture. When I was working in a large corporate situation full of nepotism and back stabbers, I was pulled into HR and threatened on some of the most unsubstantial alleged infractions. At a company function, I showed a few of my best images to the HR director and mentioned to her that the continuous harassment was from CD haters that had figured it out somehow.
Never had another single issue for the rest of my career.