Phillipa, Rebounding is not easy. There are many clich?'s, such as Good things come to those that wait, There are many fish in the sea, etc. Please remember there is a reason they are around. Most are true. You are a good person from what I have seen and read here. Take time for yourself, treat yourself right and good things will come your way. There is only one person that you will spend your entire life with and that is yourself. All others will come into and out of your life. So, put yourself out there and go girl. Hugs, Meg