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    All the time would be nice; but for me, that's not reality. I simply don't want to deal with the backlash from the cretins of the world who hate us and feel the need to make a violent statement as such. So I wear my 'man uniform', to do any chores out in public. Much like my work uniform, I just look at it as something that I wear to get something in particular done, which in my mind means I have to deceive the world into believing that I'm just another normal guy. So far, it's worked pretty well, other than the ruination of my marriage, and basically being removed from contact by my sister. I haven't told anyone else after those two disastrous episodes.
    So, I sleep nightly wearing girl PJ's, change to daytime girl clothes until I have to leave the house for the day, and change back when I come home. Fortunately, that's just enough to keep the GID at bay.
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    There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    About one day a week for me, but only because it's the most I can do due to my circumstances. I'm happiest when I'm in full girl mode - clothes, shapewear, makeup, wig etc. Of course this takes time, so occasionally I'll just throw a dress and a wig on for an hour or two. It's not the same though - I want to look in the mirror and see something close to a woman and not just a guy in a dress!

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    I don?t know how much is good for me. I would need to push the limits to find out. My wife is against all aspects of cding and tries to make sure I get little time to dress.

    I find even when I have the time, so much of it gets consumed with hauling everything out and returning it. If I had all my fem things readily available, dressing might be easier. Oh to have a lingerie drawer chest!! Then because I don?t go out in public dressed, I always have to revert to drab mode if I need to run an errand or such.

    I think ultimately I would find full dressing maybe two days a week would work for me. Underdressing and stealth dressing would work in between. I find wearing my woman?s jeans, light makeup and using a purse out in public helps keep things in check otherwise.

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    I wear androgynous women's clothes more often than men's clothes in public on a daily basis. I've noticed that since I started doing this dressing completely as a woman isn't as compelling as it once was. Though I still enjoy it, it is not nearly as frustrating as it once was when circumstances prevented it.
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    Sadly I do not know the answer but I know it is more than I am currently able to do it. I would probably be good with a day a week, but also would be for more than a couple hours that day. I have never gone a full day from morning to night and wonder if that would be a great as it sounds.

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    I was out walking today, and considered this thought again. I plan on retiring in the not too distant future. When that happens, I think I'll try going fully en femme for a month and see where that leaves me feeling.

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    " We can only be who we are" ....as a lifelong single, this question has puzzled me for years.
    It seems cyclical in intensity. I have worn panties only for 25 years now and sleep in nighties, this seems to provide a base requirement which everything else is layered on.
    Sometimes my full dressing will goa bit dormant for a few weeks and suddenly come on like a tsunami of need to be the woman I long to be.

    I have often felt sunlight plays a role as I generally feel more feminine and amorous as the days grow shorter, also getting way more guy crazy when I dress as I age...oi.

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    How much is good for me?
    All I can get!
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    Quote Originally Posted by JulieC View Post
    I was out walking today, and considered this thought again. I plan on retiring in the not too distant future. When that happens, I think I'll try going fully en femme for a month and see where that leaves me feeling.
    I could never do it everyday for a month. I would get bored and all the labor involved vs just pulling up my shorts and putting on a Tee shirt.

    It gets really hot here in the central valley of California. Over 100 degrees last 5 days in a row. It might drop to 98 degrees on Tuesday this week. Cool off time maybe middle of September. Makup would just melt off me.

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