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    I got rejected

    My wife told me that next Sunday her and 7 girlfriends are going out for brunch. They have a theme, wear something black and white.

    I told her that I have a nice black and white dress.

    Forget it. You can't come.

    I am heartbroken. Really? Me? Heartbroken? We had a good laugh about it. But I still can't go.

    Natalie

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    Don't take it to heart

    Maybe they can only have an even number of people at the table
    People try to put us down
    Just because we get around

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    I love that you had a laugh about and laughing is very healthy. Maybe next time you can go, plus you still have a week to convince her.

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    Hi Natalie,
    Do you normally go out with the girls or were you just joking with your wife? Does anyone outside of your wife know about Natalie? Going on a girls get together is on most of our lists!

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    There's that smile! CarlaWestin's Avatar
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    So just plan a salon visit with her 7 friends and tell her she isn't invited.
    I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
    My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
    And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
    Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!

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    Natalie, I think thats super cool that you and your wife can joke about your Crossdressing but wow can you imagine the rush it would be to dress up and go out with 7 other women.

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    Awesome that you both can laugh about it.

    If it were me, I would definitely take that time for dressing in that same outfit you discussed,
    If they can get prettied up and go out. You should get prettied up as well.
    my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress

    "Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"

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    Quote Originally Posted by CarlaWestin View Post
    So just plan a salon visit with her 7 friends and tell her she isn't invited.
    I really like this idea!!
    Crissy

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    Natalie, At least the interaction was playful. Maybe you can go out dressed on your own.
    Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasmine23 View Post
    Hi Natalie,
    Do you normally go out with the girls or were you just joking with your wife? Does anyone outside of your wife know about Natalie? Going on a girls get together is on most of our lists!
    Nobody, this would have been a first for Natalie.

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    Are you going to somehow let that black and white dress be visible to her this week? Maybe joking that you?re willing to be a backup in case someone cancels?. you know, just willing to help out.

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    Wishful thinking I guess. Like others mentioned at least you can joke with your wife about it. If I tried the same thing, mine would be quite annoyed.

    Sandi

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    I do believe that you are joking, Natalie.

    I can guarantee you that if my hubby were to join my girlfriends and I, he would be bored to tears no matter how he was dressed. He may even fall asleep at the table.

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    I have heard plenty of girl talk over my many years. I just asked for a reaction. We decided that only 2 women of the group would have a negative reaction. The other 5 ladies would probably take it in stride after the first 5 minutes of shock at how HOT I would look. HA.

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    My wife went on a ladies lunch last week, i knew if i joked like this she would not take it well. But i food mention that i was jealous I couldn't go. Heck, i would have enjoyed it in drab. I've always felt more comfortable in a group of ladies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carlawestin View Post
    so just plan a salon visit with her 7 friends and tell her she isn't invited.

    rotf lmao,
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    I agree with Char. I would be. Only in my case I'm just as bored in a group of all guys!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    Well, maybe next time!
    O wad some Pow'r the giftie gie us
    To see oursels as ithers see us!

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    That is a dream for many of us here, I am sure.

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    On the up side. The girls are planning a birthday party for me in November. The theme will be short tight black cocktail dresses. Now here is an opportunity to shine.

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    Haha well that sounds like fun even if you don?t get to dress up.

    Sandi

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    That sure does sound like fun, A bunch of girls in short tight black cocktail dresses.
    Sounds like a perfect birthday to me. If you get to dress or not. It will be a ton of fun.
    my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress

    "Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"

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    You probably would have shown up the other ladies with your beauty and style anyway. And cannot wait ti hear about the LBD Birthday party.

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