When I was a little kid my parents told me I could not cross the street. I wanted so badly to cross the street to explore the other side. As I got older I did explore and expanded my boundaries. I could be gone all day and everything was cool. It's the same with the pull to be outside the confines of our home. My wife is not accepting of my crossdressing, so it has always been solo exploration, but with limitations because there is not universal acceptance which can lead to unwanted encounters. So, it has been evening drives and strolls, fully en femme. Those drives did take the edge off not being able to present myself to my wife.

Yes, no matter how careful a person may be, there is always a risk. One night, coming home from a short shopping trip with my wife, a woman stepped out in front of my car and she walked into the front of my car, more than the car hitting her. Yes, medics and police. Hardly more than a bump. Boy, was I glad I was not out for an evening stroll.

Your wife is so onboard with your cross dressing, it makes me envious. I would love to be totally en femme: pretty dress, hosiery and heels and spend an evening preparing dinner together. My recommendation is to find some social function that would enable you and your wife to spread your wings. Halloween always comes to mind. Rent a hotel room away from your city or town, so the possibility of any negative occurrence does not happen enroute. In my state there is an annual week long function at a hotel that is attended by husbands and wives. I would love to have the opportunity to attend, if I had my wife along.