A few recent threads got me thinking about my self-image in both masculine and feminine expression. I had to laugh over my "him" vs "her" inner monologue:
Weight
- Him: 10 pounds? Who cares about only gaining 10 lbs? and that dessert looks really good tonight...
- Her: Uggh, this dress is feeling a bit too snug again? Ok, I'll just fast for a few days and fix that.
Facial hair
- Him: Just don't feel like shaving this morning - no big deal, I'll probably get around to it next week.
- Her: This afternoon stubble is so annoying - maybe I should shave twice today?
Skin
- Him: When did that bruise happen? Oh well, it will heal up in a few days?
- Her: Wonder which shade of concealer will best hide that age spot?
Nails
- Him: Need to clip these nails short so they don't snag them on something again.
- Her: Hmmm, should I go with the almond or coffin shaped tips today?
Hair
- Him: Getting a bit shaggy on top but nothing a baseball cap won't fix for awhile?
- Her: Wonder whether the wavy long blond or the straight mid-length ombre wig would go better with this neckline?
Shoes
- Him: These tennis shoes still have some tread left, they'll last for a few more months before I need another pair.
- Her: Should I get those strap stilettos in both black and silver? How about the white block heels to walk around in? Might as well buy all three...
Clothes
- Him: Yeah, this old shirt has a couple of holes but they're hardly noticeable - wonder if I should throw it away? Naw, it's just fine...
- Her: Well this blouse doesn't at all pair with that skirt like I'd hoped - I better switch to another outfit and start shopping for what will go with the original two.
Do I suffer from a stereotypical view on societal expectations towards women or am I just a lazy guy?Sigh... probably both
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