My wife knows and has since we were dating. I guess a girl in the store where I tried on my first pair of high heel boots. That is it. I don?t feel lonely as my wife still finds a way to make it fun.
My wife knows and has since we were dating. I guess a girl in the store where I tried on my first pair of high heel boots. That is it. I don?t feel lonely as my wife still finds a way to make it fun.
My x knows, but no one else that I am aware of knows. That's one of the deep struggles for me, no one to actually SEE me and accept this part of me. It can feel very isolating, and for me, that's never a good thing. I need to be around people.
The total (meaningful either post or present) people that know are my ex, my two prior therapists, my best male friend, and as of yesterday my dad.
Honestly I didn?t want to reveal the size 8-12 skeletons hanging in my closet, but there had been a nagging thought to do so the past few weeks. Circumstances eventually made it unavoidable to keep it inside any longer.
He was as supportive as I think anyone could want which is really all I can ask for. Reading between the lines he seemed slightly uncomfortable, but tbh I?m not even sure I wouldn?t be upon learning my (hypothetical) son plays dress up in mini skirts and heels.
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