For Cross-Dressers: Would You Transition If You Could?

[Jodi79]

not even a blimp on the radar. Im just a man that loves the look, feel, and beauty of women's clothes.

[PantyBoots]

That's the way I feel with lacy, silk lingerie. I like to feel feminine sometimes, and that's what does it.

[Andrea Renea]

Nope..My life is set in stone.

I would not want upset the apple cart with my
family and friends

[Petals]

I personally would not go full transition because I still like my male side, so I have best of both world?s!
It?s personal choice but I respect people who do go full transition

[Staci]

Not for me. Love to crossdress but that is it.

[ilisa]

I've thought about it some, and in the pink fog its easy for fantasy to take over. However, I cannot deny my male self and the fact that I like doing guy things too. I've got a nice pair started thanks to gynecomastia, and I wouldn't mind if they were a little larger. If they get larger thanks to some herbs I take to combat androgenic alopecia, a beta blocker, and a statin then thats fine. I'm on board with them being bigger, but thats the extent of it. The problem with transitioning is your male parts will most likely shrink and become useless. Thats something I'm not willing to let happen, and if you're thinking of transitioning then think long and hard (pun intended) about it. Consider all the things you do as a guy, and if you're willing to give that up. Transitioning will change you mentally putting you into girl mode, and once on that road you might find it difficult to reverse it.

[Sabine7]

Hi Ilisa,
I have been looking at this problem in a very similar way as you for years. However, it changed recently. It looks like I have fallen in a black hole of femininity completely. Male values and virtues are mine not any longer but those of females. I live in a male mode to make my successful family and social relationships possible. So, it's like simulating my masculinity, remains of which left frozen on the event horizon of the black hole. I like staying in the female mode as long as possible. I am not sure if I consider myself a woman but for sure I would like to be one. I desire having a female body but I don't think the transition is an option for me. I don't believe it could be successful and satisfactory due to my body condition and age. As far as I know I am suffering from a moderate gender dysphoria and if I had a gynecomastia or lost my male parts I would not cry.

[Violetgray]

In my opinion surgury and hormones are just Extreme Crossdressing. If a full and real transition were scientifically possible, as in I'd actually become a genetic female, then I'd consider it but probably not do it. If, as Kris mentioned, I could switch back and forth at will, oh hell yeah!

O.k. but it isn't, though. Dressing is temporary in a way that hormones and surgery are not.

As for myself, the best way to describe it is that I want to like what I see when I look in the mirror. With the changes I would make living as a woman full time would be the end result.

[VS Fan]

Not in the cards for me, but even if it were an option, probably not. I don't think I AM a woman, I simply wish I were one. I hate myself in a lot of ways, but I don't think transitioning would change that, sadly it would likely give me more reasons to be unhappy with myself.

[ilisa]

Hi Ilisa,
I have been looking at this problem in a very similar way as you for years. However, it changed recently. It looks like I have fallen in a black hole of femininity completely. Male values and virtues are mine not any longer but those of females.

Hi Sabine,

If you don't mind me asking, did something make your outlook change in this regard? I'm curious. If you don't wish to say you can ignore my question. Its all good.