Girls, how do you deal with childish and immature people (men or women) who approach you for dating or toxic friendships?
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Girls, how do you deal with childish and immature people (men or women) who approach you for dating or toxic friendships?
Translated from Portuguese by Google.
Politely decline. No need to deal with them. It won't change how they act. I continue to act like everything's normal and they are the one acting out of order.
I have had it happen a couple of times. I just politely decline.
Last edited by alwayshave; 09-01-2025 at 10:37 AM.
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
Hasn't happened often but I usually bend the conversation around to how dedicated I am to my wife.
I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!
Like Carla says. Any mention of my wife or marriage usually solves the problem. Funny how they disappear.
' I'm in a relationship.'
If you pass really well, expect to be hit on at any club or bar. Not passing well, some may assume you're gay. Stay away from toxic environments and blend in at safer places.
Putting the 'Fun' back in dysfunctional.
Childish, stigmatizing, prejudiced, seems to be fully on board for the year and probably a good part of the 21st century. Even though we may project that more feminine self. Best be prepared to develop or retain that thick skin because you will need it.
Hugs Rochal
tammileetilliso - well kind of depends - are you available? If someone asks you out and you are available, why not meet them for lunch if you have good intuition about them?
I mean, if I were dressed en femme and a cis-woman asked me out knowing I am a guy, then I'd probably say yes to a lunch date and see what develops.
When I've told men I'm not interested they sometimes persist! I don't go all crazy, I go along for awhile because being one, I understand men!
After awhile of me telling them not to touch me and repeating I'm not interested in them they eventually ALL move on to greener pastures!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
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