I'm definitely bisexual as well and have settled on the fact that I'm a crossdreamer. Part of that is wanting to be the woman in a sexual encounter.Originally Posted by CrossKimmy
I'm definitely bisexual as well and have settled on the fact that I'm a crossdreamer. Part of that is wanting to be the woman in a sexual encounter.
Last edited by Crissy 107; 08-21-2025 at 01:39 PM. Reason: Too graphic
Great point here Alice. In my case my boyfriend is bi but but what you described is pretty much our situation.
No! Never have and never will be interested in dating a man! I am a man who likes to dress as a woman occasionally!
I've been with men sexually but it's never been romantic. It's come closer to being romantic with other crossdressers. Although I do feel more fem when I'm in a man's arms. That's just me I guess.
"You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder
I'm a man and I will never be interested in dating a man! Also, I dress like a woman all the time.
John
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Preferred pronouns: He, him, his
@SaraLin Aren't we complex beings... makes the world more interesting.
@Alice92 I like your solution, consensual and unambiguous. It makes sense.
Last edited by DianeT; 08-27-2025 at 10:54 AM.
I'm just going to put this out there.
When dressed as a woman and a guy makes a pass at you, it is super bewildering.
Sometimes the path is a long and winding road. While dressing has helped me to express who I feel I could have been all along. The experiences I?ve had with men echos what others have said?it?s generally lacking reciprocal feed back or expression and can feel purely transactional.
This is kinda funny and probably something many has pondered. I?ve had a couple of male friends that know I?m a CD both of them at times have asked to go out. Well I certainly called their bluff. Both of them chickened out totally, wow just fun and they couldn?t handle it. Had a couple interesting encounters with CD?s that went farther. I found you better be not only like minded but open minded. Both ended to be ?Men? in drag. Just getting there little thing done and oops all done. No fun. I would assume they?re people out there that probably would work out. Might have get scratched by a lot thorns to find a rose. LOL
Last edited by DAVIDA; 09-08-2025 at 02:30 AM. Reason: Quoting the OP is not needed.
It's always important to remember that gender is a separate thing from sexual preference.
I happen to be bisexual and a crossdresser.
So, I thoroughly enjoy it when guys are interested in Sherry Ann.
What I do NOT understand is when straight CDs say they're soooooo offended by a guy coming on to them. That is ridiculous. If we're dressed pretty, and a guy says so, then take it as a compliment and be flattered! There is no reason to get all defensive and jerky about it.
Last edited by Sherry Ann Evans; 09-09-2025 at 08:30 AM.
Sherry, I agree with you. A compliment is always welcome, whether it comes from a man, a woman, or another CD.
I agree as well. I have gotten compliments from men and women, and trust me you know when it is a compliment vs someone that is just being a chaser. The last time I went out in April, I got a high 5 from a guy. No problemo. He was just saying my outfit was cool.
Sandi
I'm not going to lie when I'm dressed I sometimes think about getting attention from a man, but believe it's probably just like a gold stamp that I'm attractive and excepted as a women. But then I really think deep into it about it and I really don't find men attractive. Just like its said here it would be interesting being with a men dressed like a women but if all the clothes did come off, WOW! That's pretty much just plain gay sex. I guess I now know why I never did it.
Great post and great and interesting responses.
I love complements! But I?m like why put on these beautiful things and not at least blush a little bit when you get attention.
I hate how it?s so difficult for them to understand we?re still attracted to women
I enjoy compliments from both women and men. The more, the better. But I value the comments from females more than those from the men. A female is who I'm trying to emulate so getting input from females carries more weight.
"Care about what other people think of you and you will always be their prisoner" - Lao Tzu
I strongly agree
I'm new to this site and I don't know how to intervene properly yet. Regarding this matter, I must say that I've been very feminine since I was a child, with a body that always resembles a woman's. I've always wanted to be the wife of a man who would respect me, as a cross-sex woman, and treat me like a real woman, loving me and me loving him, like any other partner. After three relationships, I've come to the conclusion that this is impossible. Men aren't romantic and come to us looking for nothing more than sex.
I have never thought about having a romantic relationship with a man. I am attracted by women only but I don't mean by a sexual point of view only but I mean that my soul and my mind are completed by a female soul, even if I have a female component too. Our female part needs sweetness, comprehension, delicacy, emphaty; all qualities that are not so easy to be found in men. Generally, I agree that most of men look for sex only by a crossdresser but what about our needs? Do we really need souls interpenetration with a man? Being a crossdresser means loving femininity with all that this word means and I think that most of Cd's, having experiences with men, try to complete their sense of feeling a female through a man so men are a means to reach a complete condition of feeling like a woman but this is even related to the condition that men consider a crossdresser as a woman and this never happens. Most of us feel so alone just because only a crossdresser can really understand intimately another crossdresser.
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