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    Family visit

    Starting today I have family staying with us for at least the next 4-5 weeks so no time to be Jesse.
    Of course I?m glad to see family but it is strange to completely wipe out this part of my life, especially as I have been dressing every evening now for a while. Will literally be packing things up so it doesn?t look like my wife has double the wardrobe she has, and to avoid any accidental discoveries.
    Oh well thankfully at least I?ll still have the forum to be able to stay in touch with you all.
    Enjoy your cd times!

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    My daughter's family of six moved in with us for eleven months back in 2021. They were between houses and we had the room. Everything but panties went into tubs and the garage attic for the duration. It was actually a great experience and we became very close to her four boys in a way that otherwise would not have happened. Well worth it.
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    Enjoy the time with your family. Family is irreplaceable and so very important. And remember, there's always underdressing if the need gets too great. Wink, wink!

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    Just had something similar happen.
    Being retired now I dress almost daily. That being said we planned a trip with a female friend who is unaware. It lasted 7 weeks and not being able to dress at all for that time was truly harder than I thought it would be.
    We're home now and things are back to normal, LOL.
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    Jesse, I've no idea if this would work for you. but here's what I do when we have visitors. Because I keep all my girly things in the spare bedroom, I hang my clothes in our master closet alongside my wife's dresses. I have a gym type bag I put a lot of extra bras, forms, press-on nails, etc. in and put it on the closet floor. I put my panties, 6 or 7 bras, nylons, some bracelets, and 6 nighties in my nightstand (has 2 drawers). When I go to bed, I have everything I need to sleep peacefully thru the night. When we visit family out of town, I take enough of those things along so I can sleep en femme at their homes, too.
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    Jesse, I was in that position for eight years. My wife's adult daughters lived with us. Fortunately, they are both out of the house at this point.
    Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".

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    4 - 5 weeks? That's better than 45 weeks. It's still a long time. Hope you find a way to manage.

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    I only have to worry about the odd overnight stay from one of the kids. The problem that arises for me is that the bedroom I sleep in belonged to the youngest but the older one stores a lot of her clothes in there as well as the wardrobe/sets of drawers in her old own room.

    This means either of them might go looking for something they left behind when moving out and could come across some of my stash on the hanging rails. In the past I've thrown it all into black plastic bags and put it in the loft. I decided upon a more workable solution and bought a number of cheap suit and dress carriers off Amazon and now hang my things inside them. At the same time I installed a hanging rail in the loft so if I need to decant my things I can simply pick the carriers off the wardrobe rail and hang them in the loft. Quick and easy.

    I've two large drawers full of blouses and tops that still need to be bagged up. I'm thinking of making two cloth bags with handles that fit inside the drawers that I can just lift out and either drop into a sack or find a plastic storage box that they can simple fit inside. It'll save me having to repack everything so again quick and easy.

    I know this sound like a bit of overkill but we all know that feeling of stress if visits are sprung on us at short notice and we need to hide our wardrobe away from prying eyes and awkward questions.
    Who dares wears Get in, get out without being noticed

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    Well everything’s packed up. First time I’ve had to do this so it was interesting to actually handle all my items. Ended up with a large suitcase, medium duffel bag, and two medium totes - more than I thought! A few items went to Goodwill.
    Heather - wish I could but this visit includes a toddler - so too unpredictable overnight so playing it safe.
    Genifer - agree 4 - 5 weeks very manageable - although will be looking forward to getting back to it when the time comes. Spent my last day before visit dressed almost all day including a little time on the patio with my wife as a last hurrah.

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    When family comes to visit, I greet them at the front door wearing my favorite dress. A black and white number I got at Walmart for $12.
    What do I do on days when I don't crossdress? I have no idea.

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    I know that feeling. At least you have something to look forward to!
    O wad some Pow'r the giftie gie us
    To see oursels as ithers see us!

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    I had a family member plan on staying with us this week for 7 days. I would have had to take Natalie's room down and pack it away.

    But the Government shut down scared her off from flying. I am thinking that was a good call.

    So Natalie is NOT going away this week.

    I am sitting here in a skirt, all made up with a wig and jewelry but no top on. Only a bra and I am astonished that I am filling it completely and if I did have a top, on my boobs would still not be hidden at all. Yikes.

    I bet my sister would have NOTICED the family resemblance. All my sister are very well endowed. I am about a 16 year old girl size in my house growing up. I wonder if I will ever get to a 18 year old sister size? There would be NO way to hide them then.

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