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    Senior Member DianeT's Avatar
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    Alpha, no. More a Lambda with an Epsilon of Xi, Pi, Phi, Chi and Psi. Sometimes I wander in the realms of Gamma Delta (yes I am a GDer too). I can be the Sigma of Beta, Zeta, Eta, Theta, and even a Iota of Omega. Mu, Nu, Xi and the fair Omicron and Upsilon can be my muses too, with a pinch of Rho and a hint of Tau.
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    Being retired now, I don?t think I have to be Alpha to anyone. I probably was one when I was working though.

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    I never considered myself as an alpha male, I had some jobs that were more of the alpha nature, Auto Mechanic and Auto repair business owner, which meant I had to be in control. I had 13 people working for me. And had to project the alpha male at times. But in all honesty, on the inside, that was all an act. I never really truly felt alpha in my personality
    my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress

    "Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"

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    I was never an alpha but never a beta either. I love being a dude, but I also love being an atypical dude. Hetero, monogamous and rocking turquoise toenails right now.
    To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved is our greatest fear. But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It is what we need more than anything. ~ Timothy Keller

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    Being a woman allows me not to be an alpha, it is an escape and a relief from the constant pressure.

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    I expect this post will be deleted, but it's triggered a deep sexual response in me.

    I would love to encounter the alpha crossdresser as a sexy sissy! I want to be a totally submissive.

    Iv'e got the demi cup bras, the matching garter belts, the sheer stockings and heels to tempt him.
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    A while back I was working on my friends car and it became like a friends project in my garage at my house. My friends would come over and we would smoke and have a few beers and work on the car. My wife would sit on the bench outside talking to her niebours friends and watch us. One night I was all dolled up and she said to me that my friends would be devastated if they ever seen me dressed. She said they follow me like sheep and don't do anything without my command and she even notices her brothers and brother in laws also are the same. She said even though I was wearing a pink skirt at that moment she told me I was the Alpha male of my friends and family. I never considered myself this but was in less disbelief at that moment the way I was dressed.

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    We agree I?m a Sigma. Favorite song, My Way.

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    I would be consider alpha I guess. When in male gear I am a beer drinker, football watching, use to be sports playing, but older now, I hunt and play the occasional round of golf or horse shoes.

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    By the way, the concept of alpha male is a myth. https://www.scientificamerican.com/a...f-idea-a-myth/

    Even the scientist at the origin of the concept has considerably modified his description of it. https://bigthink.com/series/legends/...iSVRtrJp9sR7jo

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    Omega Man

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    I don't consider myself as an alpha male and I doubt my wife does either. I am competitive in the things I enjoy doing, but not in an alpha way. How can a MIAD be alpha?
    It's never too late to enjoy a happy childhood.
    Live each day as though it's your last 'cause one day you'll be right.
    I'm finding the more feminine side of me...and I ❤️ this adventure.

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    I cannot say that I am Alpha. I played sports when younger and still hunt. I am very competitive. In my work life I had to be assertive. I ran a department in my work life. It was very heavy work, steel fabrication. Occasionally working at heights. My company and fellow workers looked to me for the answers to many problems and situations. Dressing was a very important thing for me. I loved to come home, shave and shower, then slip into something softer. There were many nights when I was exhausted, my wife would say to me, "I cannot believe you haven't put on your hose and a nightgown yet". She would not go for full dressing, but was OK with hose and a nightgown. I feel like Ferdinand the Bull, hope you are familiar with that story. I would rather sit and smell the flowers. But do not hurt someone I love. The real man in me will come out fast. Hugs, Meg
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    The term "Alpha male" is a transplant from a now long debunked study in wolf behavior that dates back to 1947. Look it up.
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    I think I am very much the opposite of Alpha male

    Well, maybe the closest I had come to being considered an Alpha male was quite many years ago, during instances when watching soccer matches on big screen at various bars, pubs etc while having beer, and sometimes getting too excited, and cheering and once in a while swearing at the referees or players, lol. I mean, if you consider this as being Alpha

    Anyway, that was many many years ago. I still watch soccer, but almost always at home nowadays.

    Would I have liked to be an Alpha male ? No. But, no offence to those who are. To each, his own.

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    If I were Greek, I'd be Sigma.
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    Okay..... here goes. NO. Unless I need to be. And on some occasions. I love my dresses. I love makeup. I like to look and feel like a lady. I
    have also hunted. Fished. Built a weaponized remote control robot and fought it (Like Battlebots if you have ever watched it). I met my wife through a club that studied the middle ages by recreating them.... I once owned a full suit of armor and fought 3000 to 3000 combatants. I am wearing ladies jammies currently while watching ND vs. Stanford Football. If I don't die in my sleep I hope that I am killed in one on one combat while defending an innocent person.

    So I don't know. I am complicated and can be Alpha when needed I guess.

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