My wife's biggest concern is that others (neighbours, friends, associates, strangers) will see me dressed, recognize me, and then take their comments, concerns, and questions to her for a response. It took time, but my wife is now fine with me dressed however I choose inside our home. She will even compliment me if I deserve it, or will offer constructive criticism now and then. A wig and makeup bothers her at times, but other times she'll offer suggestions for me to try this product or that one.

I'm convinced that if she could ever overcome her fear of what others might say to her about me, our life together would be even happier.


Karen