Don't blame me

[Maria 60]

On Sunday's I like to dress up a little better because it brings back childhood memories. On Sunday's we would all go to church and because all the stores were closed we would visit relatives and the women would all be dressed up.
Last Sunday my wife will usually make a extra special lunch with her childhood memories of the family having Sunday lunch together and when I came fully dressed make-up and all she looked at me and told me I've come a long way and that I looked good.
I told her she's probably saying that because I'm her creation, I wouldnt be were iam today without her. She instantly responded "don't blame me" that you want to dress as a women.
I explained to her the day I told her that I was only into slips and pantyhose, I rarely wore skirts and for some reason I didn't mind wearing my sisters and mothers pantyhose and slips but even at a young age I felt that panties and bras wear a personal item.
When I told my wife she didn't want me wearing her things and we went shopping and at the store I was holding a slip and a couple pairs of pantyhose and she asked what colour bra and panties I wanted. Instead of me telling her I was fine with what I had in my hand I decided to go along with it. I explained that was the fisrt time I put on a women's bra and panties and then she started handing down and buying me skirts and dresses without me even asking for them. Then when I came to this community was when the shoes and wigs and jewelry came along.
I pointed down at myself and told her she bought me the skirt I was wearing and she handed down the top I was wearing and showed her that it was also her old bra I was wearing that she also gave me and that I wouldn't have been where I am without her help.
I told her I wasn't making fun of her and that she should take credit of the great job she has done and that I'm her creation.
She looked me up and down and said "I did do a good job" and knodded her head and laughed and told me just because I look good not to blame her for my habit.
My wife is all around OK with my dressing and she doesn't seem to really pay attention to when I'm dressed but she doesn't realize she's more involved then she thinks.
Does anyones wife help out more then they believe with there habit

[Rochal Tukque]

First off I?m just glad my wife doesn?t get all twisted up about how I dress. On rare occasions when I dress up all the way she will indeed point out problem areas without thinking about me being in feminine fashion as if she was talking to another girl. Most the time I?m just PWWC, person wearing what?s comfortable. She?ll pat me on butt and say you look cute!
Hugs Rochal

[SaraLin]

My wife does NOT help - at all.
At best, she tolerates a limited amount, and while she's gotten used to it, I'm sure she'd be thrilled if I announced I was stopping.

[chrissy111]

My wife loves buying me clothes, I feel like her Barbie doll. The best part is she hates me in pants, so I have a closet full of skirts and dresses.

[JesseVF]

Well sometimes she will subtly encourage me to buy a piece of Jewelry when we are out perusing some stores. Also she has bought me some skin products - and a makeup remover cream when I was kind of complaining that the wipes I usually use were not working that great. Plus she did buy me a purse for Xmas although it’s primarily designed for air travel. But clothes or remarks about clothes - not gonna happen.

[Stephanie47]

I am envious of those who have wives who participate and encourage their husbands in their transformations or just wearing an article of female clothing. I wish more women would put their two cents in as to why they accept and encourage their husbands.

[Cheryl T]

Mine is all in, helpful and understanding.
I too like to dress up a bit more on Sunday as a reminder of how women always dressed when I was young and just begin this exploration.

[NancySue]

Mine too is all in and helpful. Understanding? She can?t figure out how I can find underwire bras, hose, heels, etc. comfortable. I just smile.