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    I don't know why, but my first thought about this was the person is getting information for their own book, and is trying to get as much info they can for a storyline.
    I could, and probably am, way off base with this, but you don't want to pick a book up in a year and start reading about your life.
    Just trust yourself and tread lightly.

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    Davida. I never even thought about that. As my book is already published it would be easy enough just to download it and read it for herself. I am just going to put that part down to curiosity on her part.

    Although I have mentioned my work once or twice I am in no way trying to promote it. No name or title.


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    Mostly they come back to me and have*I ever been involved with another TS or CD?.
    This is why to me it feels like grooming.

    Dog grooming for what? Just seems like she's interested and seeing what your preferences are. We can be a complicated bunch sexually. Sounds like she's on a different level with the photos she's sending.

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    Suggest she buy your book. She may be too scared to buy it in person at a bookstore or have it delivered to her home. In her life, she may be totally isolated and sees you as a safe outside of her life person.

    You, never engage in anything that makes you uncomfortable. I always live my life with "risk vs reward." What are you going to get out of the relationship? Lay it out to her that she seems to be engaging in a one sided give and take. You give, she takes.

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    Jenifer. I am not sure about the reference to 'Dog' grooming.
    Are you comparing me to a canine?
    As for the photos, I have already told her that the ones of her fully dressed are OK. The others are a solid NO.

    Stephanie. I have told her where to download the book and she may well be out and about in a different state and city.
    She had been telling me that she would be reading it on her phone. That would be too hard for me. I need a bigger screen.


    Philippa Jane

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    Certain words, for the algorithms I was camouflaging it

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