Question -- CDing lead to being gay?

[Dee 1062]

No, I am bi, but their are alot of cd's who are married and happy to females or females who are married to males.
http://books.dreambook.com/gayamerica/t4t.html

[loki_uk]

I feel a bit of a closet lesbian dressed up, but thats probably not what you meant

[Melora]

Sooo..
Maybe this whole Thread Says It WE ar "BORN WITH IT"? An aversion to being an X-Dresser and Maybe Also being attracted to Femininity OF ALL TYPES?? Whether Male CD or Females. Femininity HAS IT FOR ME, That is what Melora is attracted to.

[femboi (san diego)]

I'm as queer as it gets, the male body is very sexually attractive to me, and I love to submit to it.

I've always wanted to be a girl, even before puberty. In elementary school while the boys were on the basketball court and the girls were playing bob jacks, I was with the girls playing bob jacks. I didn't want to try out for the basketball team, I wanted to be a cheerleader.

I can tell you that most gay guys are not attracted to cd'ers at all, and I'm just a 50% cd'er. I reject the notion that any guy attracted to a CDer is a perv, it is simply his taste in a sexual partner. The sexual partners I've been with were attracted to me because of my sissy appearnance and mannerisms and I would never insult them by calling them a perv. I love 'em, they're the best!

[emmycd]

I love to dress up I'm happy to know i not gay putting on my dresses makes me frll so good .

[NickyJane]

Of course it does, just like candy cigarettes lead to being a heroin addict.

OMG!

I'm so never eating Candy Cigarettes again! ! ! !

Nicky Jane

X X X

[Joy Carter]

So toss this one up for your discussing pleasure, a post opp transsexual woman are you gay if you have sex with her Me I love woman and would love to be able to partake in all of them but realistically that would never happen. I'm a monogamist and will rightly stay that way till death do us part.

[jeniinnylons]

I have been dressing since I was like 10 or younger.

When I was younger I was so anti gay you couldn't believe it.

Latey I have been thinking about what it would be like to be with cd/tv/ts or even to be taken by a man. This one in particular:
http://www.eros-toronto.com/files/to-dee7.htm

So for me I can definately say the crossdressing has caused me to think about trying it.

But would it be gay if we were in female mode being with a guy? Remember most sex is 90% mental.

[Kimberley]

Does all CrossDressers Turn Out to be Gay?

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Does drinking a glass of water lead you to drowning?

The percentage of gays in the transgendered community is no different than the population at large. One does not become gay. One either is gay, bisexual or heterosexual. It is not learned, it is genetic.

I find it perplexing that even among our own community that this question is continually asked. It would appear to me that even some of us cant distinguish the difference between gender and sexual preference.

Fascinating.

[jeniinnylons]

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Does drinking a glass of water lead you to drowning?

The percentage of gays in the transgendered community is no different than the population at large. One does not become gay. One either is gay, bisexual or heterosexual. It is not learned, it is genetic.

I find it perplexing that even among our own community that this question is continually asked. It would appear to me that even some of us cant distinguish the difference between gender and sexual preference.

Fascinating.

There is a saying that there is always a exception to every rule.

I for one like I stated was so anti gay when I was younger. I now have thought about what it would be like to be dressed all up and have a man take me all the way.

I know what I feel.

[Ashley Helen]

No, when dressed I would consider myself a lesbian.

Helen xx

[LORIE H]

I love dressing and being with a man. Doing all the girl things for him he wants. I have two men I see 1 or 2 times a week and they love what this girl can do for them. You do not have to be gay or bi., but it helps finging good men.

[mmandy31]

i been crossdressing 30 yrs and i am straight althought the thought has crossed my mind of what would it be like dressed and with a guy .
i never done it yet always go to my wife but not dressed

[cindyxdresser]

As others do i beleive that if you are gay you are born this way.But it might be possible to change your sexual preference if you wanted to do so.I really dont think that wearing womens clothing will make you gay

[michelleliz]

not likley for me. I like to be a women to much. I might be a lisiban

Michelle liz

[Brigett]

I have to say CD'ing has opened up my femme side, which made me reconsider my masculinity. This new openness has created a closer bond between my wife and I, who knows and helps me in all aspects of crossdressing. Nope, crossdressing did not lead me to be gay.:2c:

[Krystenw]

I was dressed as a little girl until I started the first grade. I didn't know the difference. I now prefer ladies clothing instead of mens. In fact the thought of being with a man sickens me. It makes my skin crawl.
But I'm sure what I prefer to wear does the same to others.

[Barb Valentine]

Not Me

[Honey Lynn]

Naw I never became gay being a crossdresser, never even been moderately amused. I just figure I swllowed a pretty lesbian and she's trying to get out...... note to self stop covering pretty lesbian with so many donuts:D

[Snookums]

I've been dressing like this most of my life,other than being raped by 3 childhood friends at 11 years old,I have never been with a man,have no interest in being with a man,and in no way can I ubderstand what a man sees in the hairy butt of another man.

[Tanya83]

I couldn't be more NOT gay and yet I just love my high heels and panties!

[KarenSusan]

...the thought of being with a man sickens me. It makes my skin crawl.

What she said.

[Billijo49504]

GAY, only in your dreams, for me!!!BJ

[Ellaine]

Indeed, it is very odd WHY a Gay guy, attracted to MEN and "manly things" would ever CD in the first place--but they do,

Hi Vanya..
In fact very, very few Gays CD to any serious extent.

Its easy to see why a TRANSSEXUAL would CD, however. Perhaps the Gay/CD connection referrs really to Transsexuals who< "Technically" are homosexual but because of a different brain condition than simple sexual orentation.----And the sexually ignorant public dosent know the difference between a GAY and a TS--so they lump them together.

Since sexuality is more a function of the brain, it is not correct to say that "technically" your transexual is a homosexual. It is correct perhaps to say that "apparently" she is homosexual.

I know a LOT of ignorant people who actually DEFINE a Homosexual as "A man who wants to be or thinks he is a woman". In this light I can see how they WOULD think that a CD is "gay". Ignorance can be amazing.

Yes, ignorance can be amazing, but do you really know a LOT of people THAT ignorant? I don't know of any.

Lately there seem to be MANY who identify as CD's who want sex (or are engaging in sex) with genetic males (oh but ONLY when dressed en femme). I don't think I'm ignorant in my position that this is at the least Bi Curiosity or Bi Sexuality. These CD's do not claim to be TS, but wish to feel "totally a woman" and evidently think being laid by a man will bring them that all elusive nirvana.

I guess someone needs to inform Catholic Nuns and other females who have taken a vow of chastity they aren't "real women".

Real women don't think life rotates around Tab A fitting into to Slot B.

There is a wide chasm between ignorance and being uneducated.

There is none so blind as he who refuses to see.

Whilst I can see where you are coming from, and I understand how difficult explanations can be from both sides of the argument.

Is it not true, that a woman who dies a virgin, is easily thought of by other women as, not having lived?

And, as common as the term online and in magazines "bi when dressed" is, the vast majority are pre-experience wannabes. As said elsewhere in this thread, the reality is often not up to expectations. There are also those that talk the talk, but never intend to walk the walk, or bottle out.

Being in print, doesn't make it real.

[Nyx]

The only thing I know can lead to being gay is.... gay sex?