Thank you so much for posting that, Marlena. The most important message that I took away from it was this one:

Each of us embodies our gender difference in a different way, and what we all need are more stories, more opportunities to learn from each other exactly how many different ways there are to live this life.
There are as many ways to be trans as there are individual trans-people, and as paradoxical as it sounds, we are never going have a strong community until we are willing to include those who don't fit the same mold or follow the same path as ourselves.

Incidentally, I am just finishing reading She's Not There, which is a wonderfully written autobiographical account of Jenny's transition -- chock full of warmth, humor, and honesty. I highly recommend it.