Hello Girls,
I told my wife on Memorial Day this year. You could have knocked her over with a feather, she was truly dumbfounded. I was so relieved to have told her.
I got the usual questions: Are you gay?, Do you want to be a girl?, How long have you been doing this behind my back?, etc.
SLOWLY, she has grown to accept this side of me. I've tried to tell her that I'm the same guy she married who likes to drive his old truck, work on the cars, drink PBR and yell at the TV while watching the race. I think she is realizing all of that continuouly.
This week, our conversation turned to her wearing my clothes at various times. Any some point, she has worn my dress shirts, tee shirts, jeans, shoes, caps, housepants and even my bathrobe. I have said nary a word in objection. When asked, she has said that my clothes feel comfortable to her. Ditto. Why then the double standard? I think that helped her to see that I wear her skirts and (my) thigh highs for the same reason. I do have my eye on one of her dresses. I'll ask to wear it at some point.
Bottom line: Be open, honest and ready to discuss it at length.
Hugs,
Ginger
